Daily Insight: Build A Biddie

Now you all should know by now my friends discuss a wide array of topics. Everything from ratchet to political, but this specific conversation I would like to share falls into everyone’s favorite category….relationships. More specifically coming to the revelation that girls pick guys to date like projects, I call it the “build a biddie” theory similar to a Build a Bear.

A wise man once said “girls pick guys with potential. So we fix 'em up "teach 'em how to chew with their mouth closed and then they start chewing with the next girl" (ok Jim Jones gf is not the best to quote but it was appropriate lol). But we have to remember that ppl are in you life for a reason, whether it be a season or a lifetime. So all though you may have been a season you did serve your purpose. Now the key is to start picking guys that have the complete package. Because if you keep doing the same thing and expect different results that called insanity. Next time we choose then we will be around for a lifetime because the other chicks served their season and helped him become the complete package for you. Even though we don't like being the season we have to realize that guys need help and some chick out there is out helping you Mr. Right get it together.”

I completely agree with the fact that we have all at one point or another “built a biddie.” Whether it’s teaching that dude that life does exist outside of the tri-state area, or maybe supporting someone as they build their career, or even as simple as telling someone holding a fork palm down and shoveling food into their mouth is not ok. But guess what we are getting a bit too old to still be out here building biddies.

Yes I understand you and your mate growing and maturing together but you shouldn’t be building this man from the ground up he is not a child and last time I checked these hips haven’t bore any just quite yet. We all need to make that conscious decision to start walking away from the “build a biddie” factory and start grabbing the fully assembled ones off the shelf.

-Becks