Daily Insight: Consistency

I’ve been known to be somewhat of a creature of habit. Yes I like things to remain pretty level, and I like my routine. Everyone knows what kinds of foods I like, what my hobbies are, what shit I might talk, and what kind of cardigans I like to wear. I say that to say that there are aspects of your life no matter how distant they may be can share a common bond.

It dawned on me yesterday, wow, I like my men like I like my Chinese food store…CONSISTENT. If a biddie is known to hit you with the good morning text, known to give you a certain wiggly feeling, known to always have a haircut, I don’t want that to suddenly change. I’m sorry but I would like those things to stay consistent. Of course variety is the spice of life but something’s about men are better left unchanged. I also consider these aspects when choosing a Chinese food store…

Now let’s keep it real, Chinese food is one of those delicacies that can get a little shaky at times. We have all had those rib tips that just ain’t quite right. But when you find that one Golden Express that gets it right week after week, you stick with them. Hell after a while they may know what you like to order as soon as you walk in (ie chicken and broccoli white rice no broccoli, don’t ask).

I say this to say when you find a common bond in some aspects of your life don’t let that standard be compromised. If that biddie starts pulling disappearing acts, you cut that joint off! If that Chinese food store starts giving you cold ass egg rolls, you move on to the next Golden Express. They’re both a dime a dozen.

-Becks