Daily Insight: Build A Biddie

Now you all should know by now my friends discuss a wide array of topics. Everything from ratchet to political, but this specific conversation I would like to share falls into everyone’s favorite category….relationships. More specifically coming to the revelation that girls pick guys to date like projects, I call it the “build a biddie” theory similar to a Build a Bear.

A wise man once said “girls pick guys with potential. So we fix 'em up "teach 'em how to chew with their mouth closed and then they start chewing with the next girl" (ok Jim Jones gf is not the best to quote but it was appropriate lol). But we have to remember that ppl are in you life for a reason, whether it be a season or a lifetime. So all though you may have been a season you did serve your purpose. Now the key is to start picking guys that have the complete package. Because if you keep doing the same thing and expect different results that called insanity. Next time we choose then we will be around for a lifetime because the other chicks served their season and helped him become the complete package for you. Even though we don't like being the season we have to realize that guys need help and some chick out there is out helping you Mr. Right get it together.”

I completely agree with the fact that we have all at one point or another “built a biddie.” Whether it’s teaching that dude that life does exist outside of the tri-state area, or maybe supporting someone as they build their career, or even as simple as telling someone holding a fork palm down and shoveling food into their mouth is not ok. But guess what we are getting a bit too old to still be out here building biddies.

Yes I understand you and your mate growing and maturing together but you shouldn’t be building this man from the ground up he is not a child and last time I checked these hips haven’t bore any just quite yet. We all need to make that conscious decision to start walking away from the “build a biddie” factory and start grabbing the fully assembled ones off the shelf.

-Becks

Daily Insight: You Know What Spring Means

Spring is quickly approaching people. You know what that means? Yes, it means butterflies, and April mid-day showers, and flowers, and warmer weather, and blah blah blah. What the beginning of Spring really means is shedding the winter layers, hanging up that winter coat, putting away the skullies with the brims, but most importantly the end of cuffing season!

Yes, the end of cuffing season. I know we all picked up a little boo joint when it was negative 15 degrees outside with 42 feet of snow, but all of that has just about run it’s course. That person you’ve been snuggling up to suddenly doesn’t look so snuggable when the temperature breaks 60. Now I’m not saying to cut off anything you think may bloom into something special, but just take some time step back and take a good ass look at everyone else macking and hanging this spring. Because after all new April cities, bring new May biddies.

-Becks

Daily Insight: It's Not That Serious

There are a lot of tragic things happening in this world. And our world is changing. I’ve never been the type to watch the news, not because I believe ignorance is truly bliss but because it is too depressing.

There are major events that are going to happen in your lifetime and something’s that you won’t understand in the moment. And something’s you think are major, but they just aren’t that damn serious. And if you take the time to look outside of your own problems you may be able to help another.

Maybe homeboy who stepped on your fresh Constructs doesn’t need to be cursed out, maybe you shouldn’t threaten someone’s life over a parking spot, and maybe you shouldn’t have a heart attack about there being a scratch on your precious iPhone.

Things have a way of turning out to not be as detrimental as you believe once you stop focusing on only yourself. I will continue to pray for everyone being affected by these natural disasters, and next time someone doesn’t say thank you when I hold the door for them I’ll just smirk and say “you’re welcome” anyway.

-Becks

Daily Insight: Follow Your Dreams and Help Others Accomplish Theirs

A wise man once said "some women choose to follow men and some women choose to follow their dreams. If you're wondering which way to go, remember that you're career will never wake up one morning and tell you it doesn't love you anymore."

You will never go wrong when you follow your dreams...

On that note please vote for my friend Shana to win her own line of beauty products! All I ask of you is to log into your YouTube account follow the link below...and click thumbs up on her video.

If we have the capacity to help someone accomplish a dream we should do all we can!

Thumbs Up to VOTE! http://youtu.be/X40JEHI3kcA?a

-Becks