Daily Insight: Let That Biddie Build

Everything in life has to have some kind of build up, anticipation, crescendo if you will. This is especially true when it comes to matters of romance. Once again I draw inspiration for this rant from one of my good friends.

A wise man once said “one date does not equal sexy pic status.” I don’t know how many times over I could “amen,” “mm-hmm,” and “ain’t that the truth” this statement. I use this example to say that you must let the beat build if you will when dealing with the opposite sex (or same sex, I don’t judge).

Do you expect the epic fight scene in an action movie to come right after the opening line? Do you expect the breakdown of your favorite Beyonce song to come after she hits that first note? Do you expect your promotion at work to come right after your first day cause you didn’t fall asleep in training? Nope I didn’t think so…

So why, fellas would you expect homegirl to give up the panty draws after you pick her up in your Honda Civic and take her to Red Lobster once. Ladies don’t expect him to drop to one knee with a big ass ring cause he sent you one “good morning” text. Dudes don’t expect for me to “surprise” you with some for your eyes only pictures, if ya’ll haven’t even exchanged middle names and hobbies yet.

Things such as this need time to build up, to develop. No one said the wait would be easy but it’s probably damn sure worth it.

-Becks